Posted on 18/03/2024 by Evolve
I’ve been a single respite carer for a few years now, completing the application and training process during my first year of studying full time for degree at university. I was known to the fostering agency as an approved ‘babysitter’ for my mum’s foster children and they approached me to apply to become a respite carer. I went along to the introductory talks and became convinced the role was for me. I did worry about the long application and all the training I would have to fit in around my studies, never mind actually looking after children! However the agency were extremely accommodating and understanding of my study and family commitments (I have two grown up children and a grandchild too), and assured me that as a respite carer I would have the freedom to look after children around my own commitments. This worked really well for me, I looked after children in the university breaks and on the odd weekends when I didn’t have essays to write. As most respite is planned, there is usually plenty of notice so planning ahead is easy. I also kept the agency informed about periods of time that I couldn’t be available, around end of year exams and deadline heavy weeks for example. Good communication with the agency is vital and it works well.
I also took on some sessional work in a residential home during this time, but the flexible nature of both roles meant that with a bit of organisation and forward planning, I could manage it. (Just as well I’m single though!)
Respite fostering is rewarding, mostly easy going I find, with the young people being quite excited and well behaved due to being with a different carer for a while, seeing it as a little holiday. On the rare occasion there are any issues the agency are on hand to support at any time. I have the same children coming back for further respite and it’s always a pleasure to see them again.
I’ve finished my degree now and have recently taken on a long term foster placement, (and do not work residential shifts as a consequence), but I intend to continue being a respite carer as it fits so well with my current commitments and is such a valuable and rewarding role.
